Planning to take a boudoir photo shoot session? You might be confused as to what you should know and what to expect. It’s not exactly a topic that you can ask anyone and it’s not something that just anyone had done it before.
Knowing this, we’ve compiled an easy to understand guide about boudoir photography. With this, you’ll be able to start your search, such as who to shoot, where to do it, and what to bring as well as what to expect.
What is boudoir photography?
While you might be imagining sexy women in lingerie, underwear or in naked condition having their pictures taken in sexy poses, you might not exactly understand what it is. Some even find it similar to porn pictures. Boudoir means the private bedroom of a woman. The style is usually romantic, sexy to suggestive, which explains those sexy poses you’d see when you search for boudoir photography.
What happens in a boudoir photo shoot is that you’d be asked to pose in the way you feel most confident in. The point of it is to explore and show the side of you that no others know. Because boudoir pictures are usually gifted to the significant others, you’d want them to see the most desirable side of yours.
Who should I ask?
If you’re close to getting married, you can ask if your wedding photographer can also help with taking boudoir pictures of yours. You also need to consider how your partner will feel if your wedding photographer is of the opposite sex. They don’t want to know that your half-naked body has been seen by others.
On the other hand, there are also many other photographers out there who provide boudoir photography aside from their main work. Since it’s not something that would be appropriate with their main line of business, it’d be on a separate home page.
How is it done?
This is the most awkward part. Deciding to do it and to actually do it are two different things. As awkward as you might be, your photographer understands that. Which is why, some people would prepare a glass of wine, champagne or beer while chatting to get you used to the condition. Not until you’re drunk, of course, because it was meant to get you relaxed.
The first few shots will look really awkward, don’t worry. As you proceed, you’ll be able to feel more comfortable. You’ll be able to start showing that nice curve and alluring smile. You know yourself and partner better, so if there’s anything that usually turns him on, you can share this with your photographer.
Bringing your ‘closet’
The theme of the photo shoot is the woman’s private bedroom or closet. So, bring the sexiest lingerie, underwear, and nightgowns. The best part of all these pictures is that you have to wear them the night your man received the pictures. Bringing something in his favorite color, as well as some basic colors, like black and white would be nice.
Execute the finishing move by appearing before him in the very lingerie he saw on those pictures. The rest is up to you to continue!